8/25/2011

Pilgrimage of the Kindred Spirits

Recently we spent several days in PEI on vacation. It was so much fun!

First, we took the ferry from Nova Scotia to the island and then spend that evening and most of the next day in Charlottetown. We went to the musical "Anne" and it was so much fun!! Then we drove to the north shore and camped at Cavendish campground right on the shore of the Gulf of St. Lawrence for three nights. It was so beautiful and a neat experience to see the ocean from our site. We had perfect weather every day except the last full day that we were there....then there was a scary rain/wind storm. I was kind of a chicken, but our tent proved to be a good one so I was thankful. The highlight was going to Green Gables! I have wanted to go there since I was little and read the Anne series for the first time. We are kindred spirits for sure and it was such a treat to go see the beloved Green Gables and to see her world. It was also wonderful to learn more about L.M. Montgomery and visit the site of the home where she grew up and where she wrote 4 books, including Anne of Green Gables and Anne of Avonlea. And Anne/L.M.M. weren't joking, there really is so much scope for the imagination in PEI!

Boarding the ferry.
Matthew on the ferry. 
First lighthouse on PEI! And check out that red earth!
Fish and chips!
Province house in Charlottetown. We watched a light show on this building on the first night it gave some history about the province and about Confederation.
Our campsite.


Eating breakfast at our campsite.
Eating breakfast another morning.
 My first Anne display! (There were PLENTY more just like this one!)
So many gorgeous Victorian homes with intricate detail.
Matthew, shootin' the breeze with John A. MacDonald. ;)
A visit to the Anne of Green Gables chocolate store. Oh how I wish I had hair like hers!
Down at the Charlottetown harbour.

Beloved Green Gables!


 A view from Green Gables. So pretty, its no wonder Anne loved it so!
In the front room
 Matthew Cuthbert's room
 Kitchen....can you spot the "Raspberry Cordial"?!


 There it is!
 Anne's room!!
 The smashed slate....just the beginning of her and Gilbert!
 Spare room.
 Marilla's room. Prim and proper, just like her!
 We took a walk in the Haunted Woods. They really were kind of spooky!
 Foot picture on Lover's Lane. It was lovely!

 Sand dune on the beach by our campsite.
 Red rocks on the shore.

 L.M. Montgomery's grave in Cavendish. (It says MacDonald, because she married Rev. Ewan MacDonald but continued to publish books as L.M.M.)
 Visiting the site where L.M. grew up. This is the well.
This is the foundation of the house she grew up in. Unfortunately, after her grandmother died, L.M. moved to Ontario to marry Ewen MacDonald and the house was not cared for, so it just got old.
 This was the view that L.M. looked over from her window in that house. The desk where she wrote Anne of Green gables was at her bedroom window, so this is what she may have looked at while writing. Cool eh?
We drove to Dalvay by the Sea....why? Because that is where William and Kate visited when they were here this summer!
And as luck would have it, we found them!! ;)
Fancy hats in the Avonlea gift store!
We came home via Confederation Bridge.
 Here are a few treasures we picked up along our travels. The bottles are Lemon Olive Oil and Cinnamon Pear and Wild Blueberry Balsamic Vinegar. They were at the Olive Store in Charlottetown. So cool and delicious. We'll have some yummy salads at home now! The mugs are the two most recent additions to our "random pottery mug" collection. And the book is the short autobiography that L.M. wrote in 1917, I did not know about it but was lucky enough to find it at her historical site. Such a great read!


So much fun! Can't wait to go back!



Walking for Jack

Last night we joined a memorial walk for Jack Layton. It was a neat experience and a great tribute to his life and work for Canada and the NDP party. He will be missed!
http://thechronicleherald.ca/Front/1260058.html

8/19/2011

Fun mail!

Two days ago we received our first piece of mail at our new address and it wasn't just a bill, it was fun mail! My dear friend Natasha is studying in the UK and she sent me a pair of earrings from her travels to Prague over her school break. I love them! And getting fun mail is just one of the best things in life. :)


8/18/2011

Missing these sweet faces:(

We spoke to Shannon on the phone this morning. It was so great to hear her voice and to hear about what has been happening around there in the past couple of days. When we were in Regina we spent ALOT of time at her house and even lived there for the last ten days before we moved. She is such an amazing big sister and friend to us both and I just love her.

Then another sweet voice came on the line and it was Emmanuelle! How we miss that girl. Every time we talk about her, one or both of us gets a lump in our throat and our eyes well-up! This morning was no exception. That little "Hello auntie!" or "Hello Uncle" just squeezes my heart. We were really so blessed to live close to her for past few years and watch her learn and grow and get to know her personality. She is just so wonderful. And so is her little sister, Karyss. What a little sweetheart! She was almost walking when we left and eager to get moving faster! When we see her next time she'll be walking all over the place and talking too! That is a crazy. Although we'll miss out on lots of her "firsts" at least all of that learning will eventually lead to her being able to talk to Auntie and Uncle on the phone! And when they get to come visit we will have scoped out all of the good parks in our neighbourhood and we'll be ready to play like never before!



Beautiful!

This morning we received these from a dear friend as a house warming present!



Thank you Janet, you are so thoughtful and sweet!

8/17/2011

It has arrived!

After a two-day delay, our furniture arrived yesterday! We've had a lot of fun unpacking and finding new spaces for our stuff. It was kind of like Christmas as we opened box after box. I kept greeting everything as I saw it, like "Hello teapot! Hello toaster! Hello little measuring cup!" Ha. Anyway, here are a few pics of how things are shaping up out here.

Matthew in a heap of boxes just after the truck left yesterday morning.
Matthew is excited to be reunited with his leather couch!
Our dining room before boxes and furniture arrived.

After we got some things unpacked and put in place it now looks like.....

Looking from living room into the hallway/bathroom
A glimpse of the bathroom. It is too small to really get a good picture!
The entrance of our apartment.
Bedroom is still a total disaster, but it is nice to to sleep in our own bed again!
Bedroom again
Living room
Living room again
In the dining room....we don't actually have a table yet, so for now you just get a picture of our pottery and Kelly's beautiful painting!
And my quilt is hanging in the dining room too.
Dining room
Kitchen
Kitchen again

So far it is a pretty cozy little home. I think we're going to like it here! Wanna come visit?!

8/15/2011

New digs

We have been Haligonians now for five days and we’ve enjoyed our days so far. Our moving truck was supposed to come on Sunday afternoon but it couldn’t fit down the side street, because it is a 53’ trailer. So the drivers had to go away to find a smaller truck to transfer our stuff into and then come backL. Our stuff was so close but not close enough! We will feel much more settled once we have some furniture in our place. Here is a glimpse of our new place so far…



Surprisingly though, we have said a few times over the past few days that this place already kind of feels like home. I guess home is wherever we are, as long as we’re together. Yep, that must be it. (I should probably call Hallmark to let them know that I have a new line for them to use!)

Pedestrians

This past Saturday was our first full day without a car, so we are officially full-time pedestrians. To initiate this new lifestyle, we packed our backpacks and headed downtown. We started walking at 10:15 and returned home around 3:30. We didn’t take pictures, because we didn’t want to carry a camera. (We are locals now after all, so we don’t want to look like tourists!) It was just a perfect day though: the sun was shining and there was a slight breeze and a few clouds. It was beautiful! So we walked past the Citadel and down to Spring Garden Road and wandered through a few shops. We passed Saint Matthew’s United Church and it was open for people to wander through, so we stopped to read some of its history, admire its stain glass windows and its old pews with the gates at the end. Then we happened by Government House just in time to catch a guided tour. Our next stop was the Farmers Market! I have been so looking forward to frequenting that place. I just love it there! On Saturdays and Sundays it is a buzz with people, chatter and creativity and it just fires me up! It is great. We wandered through the maze of locally grown produce, meats, cheese, eggs, chocolates, crafts, sewing, food, and wines just to scope things out. We found a delicious place to eat Mexican food for lunch and a delicious latte stand for dessert. Then we made our way back through the maze of activity for to make our purchases for the week. It was so much fun! Supporting the local economy seriously feeds my inner hippy and it feeds my tummy too, so it is basically a win-win situation. J

8/13/2011

New Chapter: Halifax

In November 2010 I decided to apply for grad school to do an M.A. in International Development Studies. I had toyed with this idea since graduating in June 2010 but I was so burned by the intensity of my first degree that it took me a while to feel ready to go back to school again. Don’t get me wrong, I loved what I studied in my first degree (Honours BA in International Development Studies) but Matthew and I both did undergrad degrees at the same time. Financially it was very tough, but we chose to do it that way so that would be faster and at least we would both have the same focus. (And now that we’ve recovered from the experience, I think we would choose to do it the same way again.) There were many wonderful lessons learned from doing our degrees together too, for example, we truly learned to work as a team and we were completely united in our goals as a couple. That was great! Also, I got to learn a lot about Nursing from Matthew and he got to learn a lot about international politics, economics, and development issues – whether he wanted to or not ;) However, somewhere along the way it became apparent that am a crazy perfectionist. Who knew? I thought only my mom was that way! I guess it must be true that we all become our parents eventually. Anyway, this added unnecessary stress to my life as I tried to write 10-17 papers per semester perfectly, clearly not an attainable goal. I did, however, write some darn good papers during that period even if they weren’t perfect. From my first degree I have learned better ways of dealing with stress and I recognize that my desire to write a perfect paper every time is not reasonable and I think I have learned how to balance my life a little better. I suppose we will test that out this September when I start an MA at Dalhousie University.

Two days ago we moved to Halifax, Nova Scotia. How crazy is that? We were extremely sad to leave our life in Regina. We had a good thing going there. We loved being close to several good friends and we adored living near Matthew’s sister Shannon and her family. We absolutely love them and we are blessed to have had several years near them. We already miss them like crazy. We were also extremely blessed to have an amazing Christian family at Glen Elm Church of Christ. We were truly part of a great community there and we take many lessons and wonderful memories from our time with them. We know that Halifax will be a good experience for us though. It will be a time for us to grow stronger as a couple and a chance to meet new people and experience the east coast culture of Canada. Not everyone gets such an opportunity. We know we are blessed and we are thankful. Also, we are at a stage in our life that we are totally unattached: we do not have a mortgage, debt (besides student loans), children, or well-established careers to consider. We truly can just go. So we did!

Despite our relatively ‘free’ stage of life, the move still took a lot of effort! We began packing boxes in June because we knew that once summer hit we would be gone most weekends with camping and a family reunion. Also, after learning that moving companies charge by cubic weight we decided to sell about 4-5 car loads of belongings at a garage sale and online and to store some personal things at my parents house. Why move it if we don’t need it in the next few years? In May we took a holiday to Halifax to scope things out and to find an apartment. After considering several options, we chose an apartment on the 7th floor of a high-rise just north of the commons and fairly close to downtown. We are going to try to live without a car and just use the bus and our feet instead. This will be an interesting challenge for two people who have always had a car. Really though, the majority of people in the world do not drive cars, so I’m sure it will be just fine.

During this next chapter of our life we are going to try to share a few glimpses of our experiences through this blog. If you stop by to read from time to time, please let us know by sending a comment or an email, we’d love to hear from you!

5/24/2010

Shell Shocked

Lately I am amazed at how tired I am.
My heart is tired and my spirit is tired.
The past 3 years have been excruciating in many ways. Don't get me wrong, there were abundant blessings throughout it all. But there has been a lot of struggle as well. Matthew and I knew that we were taking on a challenge of significant proportions when we decided to both be full-time students for the first few years of our marriage. I don't think we knew just how enormous of a commitment this was though. By this, I mean that we underestimated the size of our commitment to school; and not that we underestimated our commitment to marriage. Although that has its own unique challenges, I feel like we were prepared for that challenge - but not for the toll that the intensity of school on each of us as an individual and as a couple. It was an unreal experience and I don't know if I would recommend it to other couples; if anybody asks me in the future, I pledge to be brutally honest with them to try to convey what our experience has been.
After our wedding in May 2007, we had four months of just being married and living. It was wonderful! And then September hit. On the first day of school, I flew up the stairs of our old basement suite, coffee in hand. Running late, I hit the third stair from the top, at the wrong angle and with abundant velocity, and my coffee and I went soaring into Matthew, the stairs, and the door. Perhaps that was an omen of the chaos to come in the next three years:
- Two sets of midterm and final schedules
- Two sets of assignments and papers
- Two GPAs to nurture to an appropriate level above 80% (minimum)
- Two sets of notes and powerpoint slides to print each night (at the expense of countless trees)
- Two types of study habits: one characterized by extensive note taking/copying and memorizing into the wee hours of the morning, and the other characterized by calm textbook reading accompanied by various colours of highlighters, in the comfy leather chair, with a pre-scheduled bath and bed time of 9:30 pm. (Can you guess which is which?!)
- Two individuals riddled with near constant stress, causing frequent sleepless nights, night sweats, floor pacing, headaches, and even occasional chest pains
- Two bodies who let their muscles atrophy while sitting at desks for 12 hours a day
- Two schedules of random part-time shifts whenever possible
- One joint bank account that grew accustomed to no income for the majority of each semester, because study schedules demanded every waking hour of attention

This is a snap-shot of our past three years. Now, I realize that many people have gone to school and I am certainly not trying to say that we've had it worse than most. Certainly not. In fact, before this experience I can honestly say that I didn't understand why so many people drop out of university. I probably thought that I understood, but I didn't. The biggest lessons that we learned from all of this is the necessity of sticking together and the necessity strong social networks (our family and friends). We could not have done it alone. The other thing I've recently learned is the necessity of rest. It is good and it brings much needed perspective.


5/19/2010

Long time no blog

Wow. So it looks like its been over two years since I've updated my blog. I'm actually kind of ashamed of this! I think it might be time for another crack at this blogging thing. I won't attempt a slavish recap of my life since 2008; that would be insanity. Rather, I'll start with this short entry today and in the days and weeks to come I'll start to share some of the thoughts and happenings in my life recently. This could be fun!

4/05/2008

hard day's night

I finally have a break from papers and presentations...I LOVE not reading piles of academic journal articles from the library. I think I killed an entire forest in printing this last semester - yikes. Don't worry, I'll reuse the paper before recycling;) I had two exciting trips to the library this week - to RETURN two big stacks of books - VICTORY!

This past semester has been a challenge. However, I am not exactly sure why. At times I am disappointed in myself and start to think that perhaps I 'dropped the ball' by not being organized enough, or by trying to do too many things or whatever. If I am really honest with myself though, the challenge had nothing to do with many of those excuses; this semester was just hard. Period. The courses that I took were third year level, even though I have only completed 2 second year classes, but they weren't offered, so....I did what I had to do. I have probably said to Matthew 50 times this semester, in utter dismay that, "University is so hard!" I have been honestly surprised by the challenge.
I have learned that it was good for me though. I have definitely become a better student. Actually, now that the worst is behind me, I can say that the biggest challenges were the best experiences because they have made me more confident in my academic-ability. For example, I had to do 3 research projects this semester and I got to chose my own contexts....can you guess what this little international-developer chose?! If you guessed sub-Saharan Africa, then you're right!
I am spending this weekend relaxing and doing as little homework as possible, but of course my brain is still digesting all the things that I've been so intently focused on over the past weeks. So, in a therapeutic attempt to help organize my thoughts, I'll tell you a little bit about where my studies have taken me this semester:

- In Economics of Developing Countries I did a really cool paper about Fair trade and its potential to lift communities from the cycle of poverty onto growth and development. Of course, my paper included fancy terms like: prebisch-singer hypothesis of diminishing terms of trade, the lewis model, opportunity for schumpterian waves of innovation, price elasticity of demand, etc, etc. All very fancy sounding, but when it comes down to it, the title of Fair Trade, is pretty self-explanatory. Make the terms of trade fair and, overall, communities (and ultimately nations and the world) will improve because of increased balance between the rich and the poor.

- Another paper that I wrote was for my Globalization class, and it was about the Migration of Healthcare Professionals from sub-Saharan Africa to the developed world. SO INTERESTING... and sad. It was great for me to do some reading about health care systems because Matthew is in first year his first year nursing and so I got to bounce some ideas off of him, and it was really helpful. I learned about different structures of health care systems, and a little bit more how the World Health Organization works. (It was more encouraging than when I learned about the World Trade Organization which was quite depressing and perhaps good material for a future blog.) Overall, the statistics in my research floored me. If you get a chance you should go onto the World Health Organization website and check out the 2006 World Health Report and they show a handy little graph that shows the # of physicians per 1000 people, # of nurses, etc. for each country. It is quite appalling. There is much to do to improve the health care systems of Africa and much of the developing world. I understand that there is no perfect system, but there is MUCH more sustainable options that are currently being utilized. The BIGGEST improvement that is most urgently needed is debt reduction, and conditions which will enable sovereign governments to set their own health budgets and have their hands tied by the established protocol of international organizations such as the WB and IMF- who blatantly restrict government expenditure. Sovereign governments MUST be allowed to invest in health care programs so that they can offer adequate salaries to their staff and provide primary care to all of their citizens...at the very least.

- The third topic that I researched was about the availability of Pharmaceuticals for Developing Countries, of course in the context of sub-Saharan Africa. Shocking, and frustrating realities. I have decided that I disagree with the current use of Intellectual Property Rights, in terms of Pharmaceuticals. I realize that they are supposed to provide the incentive to invest in research and development for new drugs, and perhaps they do that to a certain extent....but there has got to be a better way. Look at the pharmaceutical industry in India for example, I think that is awesome. The biggest question to answer in this regard is in terms of how one views health care and access to necessary drugs. Is it a Basic Human Right or a Commodity? I don't think I need to explain my views on this, if you know me you'll know where I stand. However, the more I read, the more I am convinced that the 'systems of the world' view health care in the opposite light, and I shutter to think where such systems will lead in the future.

Okay, enough of my rambling about school. I am still thinking through all of these things and trying to unwind a little bit before I begin studying for my two finals. Probably I won't do that until tomorrow though because my house seriously needs some attention. And I am pretty sure that I need to go play with Makena at some point today too, because I have not seen Melissa and her for way too long!

I wish that I had more interesting, enlightening or wise words to share. But I don't. I will post more soon....when my brain has had a few more days to recover.

In the meantime, enjoy your days and don't be too upset with challenges because, as I am learning, they often turn out to be a blessing in the end.

10/24/2007

Zambian Independence Day - Today!

I feel great pride when I think about Zambia. At times I have a stronger sense "nationalism" to that country than to my own! Don't get me wrong, I do love my country and am thankful for the many blessings of living here....but I am also so proud of Zambia and have been richly blessed my relationships with people there. For me, Zambia is a "home away from home" to which I still feel a strong attachment. I think I put down such deep roots there because it was my first time to really move away from home. Most people start with an apartment in their hometown, but not me! While I was there I sought a sense of "Family" to create a little niche for myself in that beautiful part of the world. My "family group" grew quickly...the Beels, Emily, the Mbumwaes, the Calders, the Kambulus, Kadonsi...many wonderful people became an important part of my life forever.

My learning curve was steep that year as I took in many new experiences. I can recall several "light bulb" moments when I would come to a new cultural awareness. Sometimes they were fun moments, but sometimes they were painful. I didn't always want to see the new reality for what it was, because it was a harsh reality...
I can distinctly remember answering the door one day to an old man who was asking for food. He was weathered from life and looked so tired. I wished that I could give him a "lazy-boy chair" to relax in, but all I could offer was some food. I don't remember what I gave him to eat, but I remember my thoughts afterwards, in a sense, shattering a very basic ideal that, "If you work hard you will succeed." All of a sudden, this concept seemed horribly untrue. It seemed naive, foreign or from the "western world", it seemed so globally unaware. That old man, and hundreds of others that had graced our door, had worked hard, very hard, harder than I and many others likely ever will work! And as far as I could see he had not succeeded. He was, in fact, suffering. Recalling this thought process still frustrates me and makes my stomach turn. How can the world be like this? I just didn't know. I still don't know. But that thought process led me to reexamine "success". Is success having a pile of RRSPs for one's future? Having a good job? A university education? A decent car? A nice house? Feeding oneself for a day? Sending your children to school? Helping your neighbour? What is success?

Today I am thanking God for all learning experiences, such as this one, that Zambia taught me. I still don't know what to do with most of what I learned that year at Namwianga...I am still sorting through it and I suspect that I always will be.

What I do know is that Zambia is a wonderful country where people are, in spite of very trying circumstances, resilient, loving, giving, hospitable, and peaceful. I received an email from my friend Kadonsi today. He shared some beautiful words of thanksgiving for his country:
"This is a special day for Zambians and other Zambian friends who are far away. Zambia got its independence from the colonial rule(Britain) on 24th October 1964. When this day comes, all Zambians join together to share their joy. It is interesting at such a time to see Pupils and other people beating drums and singing together. Others drinking "Chibwatu" a local drink that you can both chew and drink. There is a lot of groups of people that have come to Namwianga to play some football games, and do other activities just to express their happiness. Zambians have been celebrating this occasion for 43 years now, a time of peace and freedom. There has been no tribal wars, slavery or any other war in this country. I thank God for such abundant peace that He has given to this country unlike other countries...."

Please say a prayer for Zambia's future and for the people living there today.
God has gone with them all of their days.
May He lead their nation and bless the lives of His children there.